Tuesday, March 18, 2014

In Memory of Tasha

Today my daughter was having trouble with one of our kitties trying to being dominant over her. He was trying to boss her around. My recommendation to her was to ignore him. Limit her petting of him and have him sort of miss her touch. He is incredibly adorable and it is difficult to not want to touch his soft fur, squeeze him and kiss him on his fuzzy ears. I told her, "you must resist him, let him know what it feels like to not feel your love." The mention of this stirred up a memory I had not thought of in YEARS. It reminded me of a dog I once knew, Tasha.

Some that know me well know that when I was 17 I used to work as a volunteer at The Wild Animal Orphanage in San Antonio, TX. If I was not at School, Work or at Home I would more than likely be found here. Some that knew me then used to refer to it as "Maritza's Menagerie." I absolutely loved it there and it was not unusual at all for me to pack my lunch and for "senior lunch" I would go sit on the play fort at the WAO and oversee the animals. One day when my job was done I had stopped by the owner's home to say bye and when I walked out to my car to leave a man got out of his vehicle and walked up to me, he had a husky, on a rope. It was not uncommon in this area, unfortunately, to find animals that had been dumped. Usually it was cats or pet rabbits and occasionally dogs. So I thought it was interesting that the guy brought the dog with a rope for a leash. She did have a collar, being that I was the only person around he asked me if we accepted dogs at our facility. I told him, "no, I'm sorry." So he shared his story with me. The short version is that he and his wife were having a new home built and their former home sold early and they would have to live with his in-laws until his how was finished which would be approximately 6 months. He really didn't want to give her up, but the in-laws, already having two dogs of their own, did not want his dog at their place. He checked into boarding and he felt it was too expensive so opted to find a place for her. At home I had my own dog, Ivan, an Alaskan Husky. He was a cross between a Malamute and a Siberian Husky, but to the undiscerning person he was a Malamute. I had a large yard and plenty of time on my hands so feeling pity for the man's situation I offered to board the dog for the man at my place as long as he agreed to vet the dog as needed and provide food for her. He enthusiastically agreed. I reached my hand out and presented the back of my hand and suddenly Tasha dropped her nose and stared a horrible stare with piercing beautiful blue eyes that stared deep at my eyes, that unnerved me for a second, long enough for her owner to intervene and pull her head away. He told me, "oh she doesn't like hands." A little confused and needing more info, I inquired more as we went to the pet store together and picked up a few supplies. A large bag of dog food, a dog tie out and some other odds and ends and then we went to my place and set her up. He told me that she had never bitten anyone except one person. He told me she just simply did not like hands. Not really understanding what he meant about this I decided to go ahead with the arrangement, I figured we'd get that issue sorted, somehow.



The man told me more about his beloved dog. Her name was Tasha, she was a 6 year old Siberian Husky. Purebred and unpapered and not spayed. She had never had a litter. She only ate Gainesburgers and that was all, "because that's what she liked" he told me. I told him that I could break her of that and start her on regular kibble. He fed her in a specialized bowl with an "ant moat" because she would often guard her food and not eat it until she was "good and ready." After setting Tasha up at her new set up at my place we exchanged phone numbers and other pertinent info, vet numbers and so forth, and he went on his way. Feeling like a good Samaritan helping this guy in need I went to the back yard to console Tasha who was in a totally new situation, probably feeling sad and afraid. I walked over and spoke softly to Tasha who was huddled up against the tree she was tied to. She was curled in a ball and had a nose to the ground, the same look she had given me when I offered her my hand at the Animal Orphanage parking lot. Then she broke loose, charging right for me at full speed. She had a 15 foot tie out and I was standing 10 feet away from her. Somehow, to this day I still don't know how I managed to fly out of her grasp but I was airborne and landed on my feet JUST out of the reach of her snapping jaws that were intent on ripping my calf apart. As soon as I hit the ground I felt a surge of retaliation and I chased Tasha aggressively back to her tree. She did not expect that out of me and she ran and cowered, this time BEHIND the tree. I was like "GREAT, 6 months of this? What did I get myself into?" I was not happy with the situation and would have to figure out a way to handle it.


My own dog, Ivan the Alaskan Husky was only 10 months old, sir fluff and stuff. Very playful and he had been lonely with my hectic schedule. I would walk him regularly so I assumed that Tasha would be a nice addition to his existence. It was too soon to do introductions. First I had to get Tasha to accept me before I could rationalize her meeting Ivan. So every day I came out to feed the dogs. I put Tasha's food down with a commanding presence and then I would walk over to my floppy puppy, love on him and take him for his walks and play time. Tasha was reduced to staring at us going about our business. I didn't know at the time, but I was unwittingly learning the role of "dog dominance." If two dogs disagree they can do 2 things, (1) fight or (2) ignore each other. Since I sort of won the first fight by chasing her down to the tree, I was now doing step 2, ignoring her. Still showing kindness by offering her food. I didn't just give her any food though, I gave her the yummiest, tastiest food with an ounce of love. She had been eating Gainsburger patties for who knows how long. I had bought her "Gravy Train" and wet it down with warm water. Secretly she really loved it. I rarely came back to find food sitting idle in her bowl.




Weeks went by and we had all settled into a routine. It had gotten to the point that when Tasha saw me coming with her bowl, she would now greet me by standing up, yawning and stretching and wagging her tail in approval. I still did not touch her or visit with her much. Until one day ... I was on a typical day. I had gone to school, gone to work, and after work I would stop by the Animal Orphanage to do the evening feeding. Feeding the Big Cats was a difficult event to miss out on! This day when I arrived the owner of the facility, Carol, told me that my Mom had been trying to frantically reach me, "something about a dog being lose and your brother is going to get rid of it." I could only imagine what could have happened. My skin crawled as I stopped in my tracks, hopped in my car and hastily headed straight home (this was before the time that everyone had a phone). I arrived home and no one was there. On the drive home I had time to stir up some ideas and inner strength. I had to come up with a way to ... face the infamous and vicious Tasha. We had a showdown, and this time... I would not have the protection of a tie out to stop her teeth from ripping me apart. I came in the house, put my things down. I made my way to the back door and through the windows I could see Ivan bouncing on his tie out, excited to see me and a little worried. As I prepared to go outside I saw his concern was more than warranted because I was wondering where Tasha was, but as soon as I was prepared to open the door Tasha trotted out from the side of the house confidently towards Ivan. She walked up to him and postured. Ivan greeted her excitedly to which she returned a nasty session of dominant thrashing bites. It was all I could take to see her ripping into my puppy so I ran out there bravely and YELLED at Tasha to STOP! This did make her stop, immediately. She turned around and looked at me, then trotted off, away from Ivan. I stood there confidently, prepared for battle. I needed to get her tied back up because allowing her to be loose and constantly attacking Ivan was NOT a viable option. I came up with a plan. I went back inside and prepared Tasha and Ivan's dinners. I went back out and fed Ivan, by now Tasha was out of view. I did not know where she went. I put her food down where I normally put it, then turned around to see her materialize out of a bush on the side of the house. I took her bowl and placed it in the middle of the porch and confidently but not sympathetically called her to eat. I stepped about 2 feet away from her bowl but still faced her, square on. She in turn, confidently trotted up to her bowl, sniffed it and then walked to me. I did not move but was ready for a fight if necessary. She sniffed my HAND and then she slid her head up into my hand so that my hand now rested on the top of her head, in between her ears. I returned the affection and pet her reluctantly back. She wagged her tail and returned to her bowl and ate, all of it in one sitting. No need to worry about ants. I was able to take a leash and clip it to Tasha's collar and I did not return her to the tree at once. I took her out, for a walk. She thoroughly enjoyed her walk (Ivan was a little jealous, but I walked him after). From this day on I took her out and walked her. I could approach her and clip her collar and pet her head. She greeted me and showed her approval each time.

Because of all the hullabaloo about Tasha the day she had gotten loose, unbeknownst to me her owner was now freaked out and decided he needed to just find her a home. Some friends came by and we were going downtown to the Riverwalk in San Antonio, but they wanted to see the infamous dog. I did not know it at the time, but I had done a disservice to poor Tasha. I took this man back there and I told him not to touch Tasha. Well this 6 foot tall plus guy walked over and defiantly touched Tasha. To my surprise Tasha was ok with that, until he rubbed her back. Even I had never ventured to do such a thing. She retaliated to his touch by quickly sinking her teeth into his middle two fingers on his hand. I was furious with this guy for pushing the poor dog to her limits. I was furious with myself for allowing Tasha to be violated like this. So the owner of Tasha had placed an ad in the paper offering Tasha up "free to a good home." Who would not jump at the idea to snatch up a "free" husky. Her owner, to my STRONG disapproval, accepted the first offer. A young couple from the local Army base. I pleaded with Tasha's owner that all was well. That Tasha was fine, that everyone was over reacting. He had already set the ball rolling. With a HEAVY heart I watched as the couple pulled up in their car. I held back tears and obediently I brought Tasha's food and other belongings to the couple. They loaded the things in their car. I brought Tasha and put her in the car. She sat in the back seat. I forgot an item, but I had my nephew nearby and asked him to run back to the backyard to get that item. He came back empty handed. So I instructed the people firmly to NOT touch Tasha and I would return promptly with the last item. I RAN to the back yard and as I rounded the corner I heard a YELP. My heart sunk, I did not think that was possible as my heart was already dreadfully low, I knew what had happened. The man did not listen, he reached out and offered his hand to Tasha and she in turn bit him frightfully hard. In once sense I was relieved and my heart temporarily lifted. Naturally the couple would no longer take Tasha. So I took Tasha out of the vehicle, collected her items from the car and happily, yet regretfully returned her to her place in the yard.

A few days later, the owner contacted me and let me know that the vet would be by in a short while to collect Tasha to have her tested for Rabies. I pleaded with him to NOT do this. I told him, she does NOT have rabies, she is not sick, she is misunderstood. He would not listen. He was afraid that too much damage had been done. The vet showed up, they loaded Tasha into the back of a pick-up truck. My eyes welled up, in order to test for rabies, the dog would be euthanized. Her head would be removed and autopsied to check the brain for signs of rabies. This was it, I had failed Tasha. Crushed I watched as they drove off. I wished people would have listened to my words. They were not vain words, they were truth. Tasha was misunderstood, plain and simple. No more walks, no more pats on the head, no more tasty dishes and bowls licked clean. She would be no more.

R.I.P Tasha


February in Review

This month has been a whirlwind, lots of things went down but I’m not sure I remember all of it. Normally I would rely on my journal to jog my memory but unfortunately I opened up my February Journal Folder to find it was EMPTY! In a case like this I can thankfully turn to my Dropbox folder to get a “month-in-review” at a glance. So here we go…

Jan 31st & Feb 1

January 31st was a Friday night and we had an untoward “visitor” again… stop by unannounced. Based on the previous visits my husband decided to install surveillance cameras to assist us on finding out who these perpetrators were. So Friday night these people stopped by, unannounced. My husband was quite a ways away at an event for work and I knew he would not be home until late. I felt upset and could not pinpoint the reason why. I wasn’t sure if it was just the fact that my husband was not there, I can not say why, but based on the feeling I requested prayer on facebook.

“Prayer Warriors - Please lift me and my family up in prayer tonight. Unspoken request. Thank you!”

So while my daughter and I quietly sat at home in our usual evening routine minus one (hubbs) we had someone stop by. That night when my husband arrived home he reviewed the video from the day. We were shocked to find this footage. When my husband showed me I was in disbelief. He watched it over and over to pick the video apart and try to get more evidence.

Video Capture 1-31-14

It was evident that our camera was in a poor location to fully capture the man’s face or to get any credentials from his vehicle. We did not know if he was alone or accompanied by somebody else, and we don’t know what their purpose was for stopping by. I mean, maybe he was selling Girl Scout cookies? Our analysis of the video is as follows: You can not see as clearly as I can on my computer (quality is not as good here) but he has a hoodie on and walks up to the gate to open it but is unsuccessful due to the lock, he walks back to the drivers seat and just before the film ends he pops back up, so he didn't leave right away. The video time was 6:58 PM and the next video reads 7:02 PM so we don't know how long he was there and what transpired after. Pretty scary! Since this “visit” we have not had any other visits that we are aware of. Although we have seen what we feel might be a clue in the way of a “stray” husky dog. We have seen two people walking the dog. A female and a male. My husband saw the female walking the dog and said she was pretty bundled up to tell features, but I saw the male. When he was walking by he was acting strangely. At first when I saw him I wanted to throw on my boots and run down and talk to him because his dog was loose on our property back in January (you can read the story in the January post) and I wanted to talk to him just to find out where they lived so ‘if’ the dog were to return I would know where they were and/or how to contact them. I felt it was important because we *might* be getting some chickens this Spring and I don’t want a “high-prey-drive” Husky running down and snacking on my chickens. Anyway, back to my boots, well I did not have time to throw them on, he was walking a little too fast for that. Instead I just observed him and observed that he was acting strangely as I said. He was looking really “sharply” all about. Scanning sort of. He was scanning all the properties and their houses very thoroughly. Scanning back and forth as if he were on a mission. I left me a little disconcerted enough to call Jason and ask him what he remembered about the female “husky walker.” He did not offer any further details to help my hunch on the case. I almost wonder if we were to somehow figure out where this husky lives, then me might find the “black Toyota Camry” (mentioned in January post) and find out who these people are or more about what is going on here. Maybe we could ‘break’ this case of robberies, or at least ‘part’ of them?

Sunday, Feb 2nd

The first weekend of the month we had a reprieve in the weather, a balmy 45° in Mass. While everyone was gathered around their television sets to watch “the big game,” The Superbowl, we set out to knock out some chores. One chore we needed to get out of the way was to move a temporary manure pile up to the top of the hill to the GIANT manure pile. The size was so massive that instead of using our little tractor we employed the skills of our trusty old Dodge Ram affectionately named, “Hoss.” I set about loading Hoss up as much as possible with tons of shavings. I shoveled and shoveled and shoveled some more. I was having some trouble because the center of the manure pile was FROZEN nearly solid. We were using snow shovels with blades on the end to chop up the shavings into chunks and then tossing the shavings into the bed of the truck. We finally got Hoss loaded down as much as we could and we all hopped in for the ride UP the hill where we would then need to shovel everything back out.

So up the hill we went, only problem was that all the snow that had been accumulated on the ground was melted into the EARTH and we were now driving up that and it was SLICK! Very slick! Thankfully Jason is a skilled driver and he powered up the hill and got us safely up the hill. We emptied the truck bed and then we had to head back down the hill. Alayna was a little frightened about all the sliding around on the way up and imagined it would be worse going back down so she opted to follow us down from a safe distance in the pasture adjacent to the path. So we carefully headed back down the hill. It was a little hairy, but we made it! Phew! We were not able to move the entire manure pile, partly because it was pretty frozen in the center and the other part was because of the slick terrain. We didn’t want to risk a second trip up the hill and back down again. No biggie, meanwhile, the horses do not stop pooping, haha.

Monday, Feb 3rd

Well I remember not expecting snow for a few days, but woke up Monday and went out to do chores and it started to SNOW, again! It snowed about 3-4 inches. We had a few things left that we wanted to accomplish in the barn but we were not going to be able to finish if it started snowing again… so, oh well. Se le vie’!



Tuesday, Feb 4

February 4th began 2 new 1sts: (1) Painting Class for me (actually, this was class 2); (2) Father-Daughter Date night for Jason and Alayna. So off we went to class in Webster, MA under the tutelage of a very talented lady, Ms. Dolores Cowden. She is a mural artist, we met on Alayna’s birthday where I ended up doing an impromptu class with the group of girls we had taken to her home. It was fun and she informed me that she had a class for adults on Tuesday evenings. So while I worked on painting my woodpecker…. 2014-02-05 12.18.02 Jason and Alayna were going pro in a “new” sport, Candle-pin Bowling:   I was told that Alayna is VERY good at this game. Having the tiny ball puts an all new spin on an “old favorite.” Not easy as I was to find out later in the month… (see further down on this post). Wed, Feb 5 We woke up to a fresh blanket of MORE SNOW! See photo album!! I think by far this has got to be the MOST amount of snow we have seen since moving up to Massachusetts or EVER in my lifetime anyway. Very exciting for us Texas folk. Although there was that one time in Dover, Delaware. We were coming back for my Mom’s wedding and we got snowed in during “The Blizzard of 1996.” I’ll have to blog separately about that. It was really a crazy story and we missed the wedding by 10 days! Whew! That wasn’t the worst part of it… story to come on that!


Thurs, Feb 6 The snow begins to MELT and we are getting the biggest icicles we have ever seen in our lives! We have seen entertaining icicles in the past but none the likes of these lances. You could joust with a Yeti with these things! Here is a small portion of one: 2014-02-06 09.42.29   So what do YOU do when it snows. Here are a few things we do, we go SLEDDING, we went on a snow HIKE and we built a lot of fires! Smile 


Feb 9-15 – Week 2 

I finally built up enough bravery to chalk in my Aussie drawing and I am pleased as to how it has turned out. Nice! I was very pleased. I do believe I am ready to attempt to sketch them on a canvas now. Smile  2014-02-09 15.31.46 All of my artistic endeavors has gotten Alayna in the mood to draw too. She is doing really good! Here is one of her drawings: 2014-02-10 16.03.13 Mon, Feb 10 – I decided to try my hand, again, at making flour tortillas. My previous attempts have been far from satisfactory by my own personal standards. After talking to a good friend who happens to be a Master Chef Smile …. you know who you are… and she gave me some pointers, so I went to work.
As they say, the proof is in the pudding! Alayna approved, and she’s my toughest critic! Winking smile  My recipe: Homemade Flour Tortillas 3/4 C. Warm Milk (I used Water instead) 2 Tbsp of Coconut Oil (not melted) 2 C. All Purpose Flour Tues, Feb 11 – Painting Class & Father/Daughter Date As for me I painted some more on my woodpecker and I also took some older work with me to show my instructor. It was a Hebrew Alef-Bet chart I had drawn for my daughter for her school. Jason and Alayna went at it again bowling. Again, Alayna schooled her Papa. Smile  Thurs, Feb 13 – Taking to the slopes The video kind of goes fast at the end, so don’t complain, you’ve been warned. Use your “pause” button, haha. Prepare for a giggle. I was going to “fix” it but it makes me laugh, enjoy! Winking smile 



    Feb 16-22 – Week 3 & 4   During this week I transferred my sketch of my Aussies to a canvas and began painting. This is the beginning, more layers to come. Smile I also finished my woodpecker painting. Jason built a snowman, the dogs have turned it into a snow hydrant and have been resculpting it, lol. I made my first-ever  Coffee Cake. It was delicious! I also made some homemade Challah bread. I don’t make Challah every weekend for one reason or another, so when I do, it’s a special treat. All the pics are in the album below. One weekend we got up going to Springfield, MA and ended up going to a Sporting convention and next door they had an animal “petting zoo.” We went to check it out and they had elephant and camel rides. Jason and Alayna got to ride them. Here is the video, it has more details.


Well that’s it for February, it’s already the middle of March, I’ll post what we got up to soon. Smile  Yah bless!